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Back in the early 1990’s it was the infancy of the internet. The only way to communicate in groups was what was called NEWSGROUPS. These had all kinds of topics, some quite weird. They were all text, there was no way to send pictures. Somehow I got on this newgroup about people who when they were asleep they would all meet up at a certain place on earth, and then in the newsgroup they would talk about the adventures they had with each other while dreaming. I was one of the only people who did not meet and was freaked a bit that this was possible. One day, I mean one night, I was dreaming and this girl I had met on the newsgroup visited me. We started traveling all over the world together in dreams. The dreams were not the usual disjointed thing that dreams often are. They were real events, with real consistent happenings.
But after awhile, I became uncomfortable because I WAS(AND STILL AM) MARRIED. I told my wife that I was doing this at night and that I felt as if I was cheating on her(we did not have dream sex). She said that was dumb and it was just a dream; she wasn’t jealous in any way. But for me this was cheating. And I explained it to the dream girl, and she said she understood. And so, one day I told the dream girl I could no longer go places with her. She said she was sad but understood. AND I NEVER SAW HER IN A DREAM AGAIN(or anywhere).
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Your friend might be in that boat(but his wife may have said “no more”, instead of just him). And if he is, while he may be unhappy about it, he is between a rock and a hard place, and has no choice but to block you out. You are kind of like the dream girl I saw.
I think that what I want to do is to look at his natal chart, and his 2ndary, tertairy, and minor progressed return charts to find out the kind of challenges he is currently operating under. Then I will come back, and not look at your natal charts, but at the synastry in the 2ndary, Tertiary, Minor Progressed Return Charts to see where the two of you connect and where you don’t.
I would do it this way because you want to know what to do, not just what is. it may be that there is simply nothing you can do.
Does this work for you?
