So, this is kind of a long and complicated story, but to make it as short as possible, this person came into my life about a year ago saying they were a mutual friend of my best friend who passed from suicide many, many years ago. I barely remembered their name, but they insisted we had been close friends and always inserted themselves into stories about my life with my best friend back then. I don’t remember much from that time because I was so young when I lost them, but I DO know that I didn’t know this person and kept telling others that knew my best friend this. I didn’t remember any of the stories they claimed having been there for or any of their stories in general. I also have to fact check almost everything they say because they lie so often. 90% of the time, a simple Google search is enough to prove their lies wrong This person also happens to be a law enforcement officer, but not just a cop, a very high ranking one that can and has caused a lot of damage to many and has gone into depth telling me over and over how they have abused their power on numerous occasions over this past year and how they have been cheating on their spouse for years and the only reason I haven’t cut them off at this point is because I don’t want them to retaliate on me. I have been getting bolder and bolder about calling them out for certain things and it’s pretty obvious at this point that we are basically “frenemies” if not outright enemies and I want them out of my life. So, my question is, would it be safe for me to unfriend them or will they try to do something in retaliation? My original question was literally “Should I unfriend _____?” *Insert person’s name* I tried reading the basics and Lilly’s “Aphorisms” and quiet a few other tutorials and starting pages, but quite honestly I am just lost. If anyone could help me with this as this is my first time with a horary chart, I would be very appreciative. Thank you in advance for your time and help!
