My mom is now sober, shes been sober since 2023 and so NOW my parents are normal and coherent. Anyway point is the house is a mess, and like I said, my dad’s mom hates that my mom lives here. Long story short, she doesn’t know that my dad emotionally and verbally abused my mom their entire marriage when he wasn’t on meds. With that abuse she became self loathing and an alcoholic and etc etc you get the gist. I begged my dad for my mom to live here because she was going to be homeless (I was 17 and at this point i was being verbally abused by both of them on a regular basis but couldn’t have my mom be homeless) SO. we all live here now.
SO what triggered this from my dad’s parents? Well my sister and I just leased a 2025 car and that seemed to trigger my dad’s mom. Long story short I am not close with them, because of my parents ways, I grew up veryyyy isolated from any sort of family. I dont know anyone on either side and they are strangers to me, (emotionally). My dad has since forced a shallow relationship with them because that is “normal” but truthfully I dont know these people. But like I said my sister and I leasing a car triggered this outrage in my grandma. My sister and I have never leased a car, we haven’t owned a car since we were 20, it broke down and I never was able to get another one. But we (my sister and I) have started jobs and we truly want our lives to start and so we leased a car. And now my dad’s mom is demanding we get kicked out so she could start renting this home. Us being able to afford a 2025 leased car created a narrative for my dads mom that she now deserves some monetary compensation for this home.
My dad’s parents are very traditional, very old school, very by the book. My dad’s dad is almost 90 and my dad’s mom is late 80s. They both recently have had health concerns where their age is now getting the better of them and need to hire a full time nurse. Even so, my dad’s mom is asking for us to leave the home so they could start receiving passive income. This all sounds insane i’m aware but i’m being extremely blunt with this situation. The context I added may not of been necessary but I wanted to paint the whole picture to see if this chart can see my dad’s mom being stubborn, petty or serious about her new claim. What does this chart say, will I be kicked out of my home? If this house cant be rented due to it’s nature, will we have to sell it soon?