Response:

It’s going to take some discipline to reeducate your mental habits so that you do not continue to lose energy in your work environment. To begin with, you need to stop taking their negative energy personally, even when it is directed at you. Their actions are motivated by the hope, no matter how misguided, that it will make them feel better, or work to their advantage. So even when it is apparently personal, it isn’t. It’s about them, and they are all acting in their self-interest. If you can remind yourself of this, then you won’t buy into their stories and you will learn to maintain your integrity and do your work well without getting exhausted. You may find the book The Path to Love helpful in encouraging this understanding. A proper meditation practice will be invaluable in instilling the self-awareness that makes this teaching real instead of just an ideal. Many have also found the CD The Soul of Healing useful for the kind of transformation you are seeking.

Love,

Deepak