The only planet that is not entangled in this difficult situation is your moon. The moon is the leading light in a night chart, she is placed in the 3rd house (which is of medium strength) and co-present with the north node, which also strengthens her. She sends a beneficial trine to Mars and Venus and has the superior position. The moon signifies the mother, the body, the subconscious mind and the home. I suspect your Venus might be struggling, because of the influence of Mars and Saturn, but she receives support from your moon. I think that staying close to your moon is the strongest position you can take. The moon signifies the feeling of home. This can mean things like: your family, the place where you live, your home country/culture, your actual house or things or people that you associate with feeling warm and safe. The moon also signifies the body and subconscious mind. Staying close to your moon could mean something like: being connected with your body and how you feel deep inside, staying anchored in things that support and comfort you, having a caring attitude towards yourself and others, (figuratively) building yourself a place to call home.
My guess would be that staying close to the moon is your best bet to get you through the martial and Saturnian dangers that you might encounter in your love life.