Is there potential for me to finally meet her this year?
The natal and progressed charts and the transits can show potential, as contributors have outlined above.
But potential is just that, potential, it doesn’t actually mean it will happen. It might. Potentially.
This question might be more suited to a horary question,
Will I meet my life partner this year?, for example.
Your 7th house of marriage/relationships is ruled by venus.
Venus will be activated by the mars conjunction November 10th.
However, this conjunction will occur repeatedly in your lifetime, and has already done so.
Meanwhile, unpredictable uranus is sitting transiting in your 7th.
Unexpected encounters, fleeting relationships, sudden starts and stops in meeting people.
Meeting lots of Aquarius sun/ascendent/moon persons.
Or uranian types.
I feel like my relationship with my sister is closer than ever,
This is an interesting comment.
Natal uranus by the 3rd cusp of siblings, receives the natal moon by trine.
Possibly she will introduce you to someone.
I feel like I deserve her after everything I’ve endured these past 30 years
Really? She is your reward for good behaviour?
My future wife, I want to be true to her as much as I can
As much as you can?
Taurus is a solid, faithful sign to have on the 7th.
Scorpio ascendent is very strong, even more so with pluto positioned there.
Venus on the other hand is in flirty sagittarius, with playful jupiter.
You can be very charismatic. Loyal? It has to be worked on.
Your taurus moon helps with this but you have to keep scorpio and sagittarius focused.
The fact that your 7th ruler is in the 1st house shows the strong influence this has for you, a partner and relationship.
Moon near the descendent further reinforces this, your emotional base lies with the marriage.
Remember to insert South Node in your charts.
In your natal SN is close to conjunction with natal moon.
This is a Karmic position.
You carry forward ingrained emotional habits that become your escape route in crisis during your lifetime. This is your safe space, where you flee when needing comfort.
Taurus tends to indulge itself to lick its wounds, with over eating (especially with venus near jupiter!), lavishness, over dependence on an accumulation of money and goods.
The trick is to move towards the opposite pole, the Scorpio energy.
More of the spiritual and less of the material.
Venus, 7th ruler, is involved in a T-square.
It squares mars located by the midheaven. Mars, ruler of your ascendent shows a potential conflict here between who you are and what you want. Between career, identity and marriage.
The square is separating, so therefore weakening during your lifetime and becoming easier to reconcile as you age.
Virgo tends to dedicate itself and expresses love by working hard and by setting high criteria for self and others.
When they don’t meet that standard, virgo criticises, and that can become difficult to live with.
The T-square is completed by saturn in the 4th, opposing mars and squaring venus.
Saturn delays. It also imposes structure, rules, standards.
This is what becomes your anchor when scorpio and mars want to fool around with sagittarius venus.
The venus/saturn square is developing, so it will become stronger during your lifetime, helping you to conform and tie you to your commitment.
So, will it happen this year?
Your instinct says yes, and often our inner instincts are on the beam.
However, with uranus in 7th be patient and don’t be disappointed if it doesn’t work out the way you hope.
And, maybe try the horary. When the question comes strongly into your mind.
The answer to the question will be in the horary chart.
