Do you have a hearing aid to provide audio help?
I have a wonderful memory of my dearest mum, a reserved Cap. Sun person who lived within a family of talkers. On a family occasion, the talk went on and on until she stood up and in a loud voice with clenched fists said, ‘let me speak, let me speak.’ She certainly got the attention. It wasn’t a case of her being ignored; It was the rest of us getting our word in, ‘edgewise’, if necessary. In my own family circle in which get-togethers become rarer, meaning everyone has something to say/report, I have to raise my hand if I want to get a word in.
I’m not saying you should shout, but the small gesture of raising your Mercury-ruled hand to let others know you want to say something could be a manner to get attention. People may not ignore you (your own feelings) on purpose, but being aware of your hearing issue may simply not be aware that you want to join in the conversation(s). When you want to, and do speak, take that inner breath (Mercury in 4th) beforehand that provides the self confidence with which you are naturally born (Mercury trine Jupiter IN AIR!). It can enable you to speak clearly. You could be held back by your own inner fears (Moon opp. Neptune) of being misunderstood, for which others can never be blamed.
From mental calcultion of the secondary progressions, and in the Placidus house system, Sun has crossed the 6th house cusp in Sagittarius. As ruler of the Placidus 2nd and 3rd houses, it could be an excellent time ‘to work on yourself’ to boost the self confidence and self esteem by any helpful means. With the long term transits affecting the early degrees of the natal chart, and a Chiron return (inner wounding) due next year, who knows what changes you, yourself, can undertake to make life more pleasant.
Good luck. 
