He said:
“Yes, please guide me what is creating the problem in the 2nd marriage also and what shall I do for it?
“Please also guide me whether I should wait for her to come back or ask for seperation legally.”
We will start by looking to see if there are any natal or progressed chart impediments to relationship in either party at this time.
We will start by looking at you. The only impediment that you currently have for a relationship is that your Natal and 2ndary Progressed Return for the current time has Moon Out of Bounds by declination(OOB). This has good point and more difficult ones. The good things are that you have good intuition and understand others needs well. The more difficult parts which you need to think about are that you have a little bit disregard for rules. But in your case, the difficult ones don’t manifest very often.
So now lets look to see if she has any impediments to developing relationships.
She has Uranus OOB in both her 2ndary Progressed return charts, her natal chart, and in her Tertiary Progressed Return Chart(which has to do with feelings). In the Tertiary one where her feeling are impacting her actions, the Uranus OOB is moderatly strong and rather difficult to use. This means that not only is it out of bounds, but unlike you with your MOON OOB, the negative characteristics of Uranus OOB are much more prominent. So what does this mean for you and her?
It means that you cannot completely trust what she says, and you have to pay more attention to what she does. And, it means she has an excessive need for personal freedom of action: she believes she should have the right to do whatever she want when she wants, and other peoples needs(yours in this case) don’t figure into her decisions. A high friction Uranus OOB does not bode well for your relaitonship if you want it to be between equals. If you agree to let her be in charge all the time, and agree with whatever she says all the time, then you could probablyi make it work. But who wants that? And in most places, this is very hard for a male to do in most societies. So in this sense I agree with one of my vedic colleagues.
Next: we look at the actual synastry: where the biggest conflicts arise.
