To do a serious synastry we would need to do so many things that cannot be done here. We would need to start my looking at your natal and then progressed charts, first for impediments to having a relationship, and then to current challenges to having a relationship–for both of you.
Then we would need to look are the biggest challenges that both of you are facing and how these interact with his natal tendencies, and then if they interact with your challenges.
Then we would need to look at the biggest challenges he is currently facing and how that interacts with your natal tendencies, and if they interact with your challenges.
And then we would need to look to see if your emotional reactions to your current biggest challenges interact with his natal tendencies or his current challenges.
And then we would need to look the see if how you have organized the world around dealing with your current challenges impact his natal tendencies or his current challenges.
And then we would need to look the see if how he has organized the world around dealing with his current challenges impact his natal tendencies or your current challenges.
This is all way too much to address in an open world wide forum, and it’s not something that I give to you, it’s something you would have to dialog with me about.
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So we are going to just look at a taste of a couple of high points.
1. He is more likely to do and say things that push the blow-up buttons on you, rather than you saying things that push his blow-up buttons—except for these areas, neither of you knows where the lion traps are(holes covered in grass where you can’t see the hole).
2. His very powerful, and very difficult to use Energy MOON is in your very sensitive 3rd house natally. So you have this underlying defensiveness when his emotions impact the stuff of your third house.
This is the stuff of your third house:
BLOOD RELATIVES, KIN, BROTHER SISTER, NEIGHBOR, (primary) TEACHERS, LETTERS, MESSAGES, GOSSIP, EARLY SCHOOLING, TRIPS, VISITS, WRITING, BOOKS, LITERATURE
More specifically:
“Communication about personal, emotional, family, and domestic issues and about small everyday occurrences is characteristic of this combination. The emotional reactions of the HIS individuality influences the thinking and manner of communication of the YOU. YOUR ideas and communications a detrimental emotional impact on HIM. Too much useless talk about petty inconsequential affairs can be a problem in these relationships, and can interfere with work efficiency or with real communication in areas of vital importance. Sharing of educational and intellectual activities in the home is likely to produce conflict as he will not agree with you and the discussions will get emotional. He will not tend to be happy for your comments on his business and financial ideas and plans, and may disagree with YOU.
Since this combination is not favorably aspected, it can any communication about family, domestic, and personal emotional issues can blow up into a fight. You may feel as if he has a hair trigger, and you just don’t know what about these things will set him off.
Does any of this jive? Remember, it might not, since I do not have an accurate birth time for him. In this kind of work 25 minutes off can make for a completely different person.
