Typically I don’t like to post charts without a birth time, but this situation I feel is important. Anyways I am the Virgo Sun with the houses shown and the other person is outside without a birth time. He has a tendency to be very rude to a select few in the group, mostly people he ranks ahead of. Then he can be very friendly to others. Has some anger issues but isn’t a violent guy (though he was very happy some 14 year old got smacked by an old man and believes more kids should be smacked if they are disrespectful,he is from Northern Europe so it isn’t violent American Culture). Anyways, I sort of lost it as we were all having a conversation about alcohol and sleep. One guy said he had trouble sleeping after drinking. Then another guy said he doesn’t touch the stuff as it does make him sleepy, and then the guy that I am showing the chart of say he rarely does it as it makes him dizzy. So I decided to STUPIDLY say that I sometimes drink but typically it affects my sleep as it makes me wake up at 2 or 3AM often and then the guy replied in a somewhat stern way “Then go to bed at 2 or 3AM”.
He didn’t respond to the other guys like that but only me. So as revenge I went elsewhere to another friend group and waited for someone to say something similar to what I did. A dude was talking about Call of Duty video game kill cameras and how he hates the jump scares of them and I replied “then stop watching them you *******!” And it almost led to a fight. So I got my revenge. I didn’t talk back to the guy that said it to me as he is above me in rank, 10 years my elder, and very well respected among others. I should not have said my comment about waking up at 2AM due to drinking, that was one of the dumbest most vile things I have ever said in my life and I know I deserved to be punched out for that.
Anyways, how can I navigate talking with this guy? I feel like I can’t say anything around him anymore. He reminds me of my dad or Snape from Harry Potter.
