What is my solution for family or support after Pluto transitioning my 4th,?

In answering your previous question about making money and relationships, I noticed that your relationship indicators look difficult: Venus conjunct and ruled by Mars, Jupiter squared by Mars and ruled by Saturn and an out of place Saturn in house 7 of relationships. In some sense, general friendships are also part of the meanings of Venus and Jupiter. So having these bothered by Mars and Saturn, will probably indicate some difficulty in developing or maintaining friendships. Your moon is unhappy in Capricorn, especially since Saturn (ruler of Capricorn) is out of place in Aries. The moon signifies (among other things) the mother, the family, the home and the subconscious. Her unhappy state and being in house 4 of home likely indicates some difficulties in your family affairs.

The planets that are not bothered by Mars and Saturn are the sun and Mercury. Mercury signifies siblings, communication, the mind and relationships with equals. Mercury has a difficult placement in house 12, but he is in his own sign, so he should provide you with some possibilities for friendship. Mercury signifies equality, which could make him feel a bit more boring than Venus or Jupiter. Venus is about attraction and being attracted. Jupiter is about happy-go-lucky and going for bigger and better. It might be the case that you somehow overlook (or do not initiate) certain relationship/friendship possibilities, because your Mercury does not have the sort of emotional charge, with which your Venus and Jupiter are struggling. However, Mercury is a fast and dynamic planet by nature and connecting with people through normal life stuff (that isn’t always Venusian or Jupiterian) is something that can be worthwhile.

Mercury is co-present with and rules your sun. Because of that, working with your Mercury might feel – perhaps not at first, but eventually – like something close to your heart. Mercury represents things like spirited conversations, games, theater and sports: meaning things we do just for the fun of it. Your Mercury rules house 9 of higher education, philosophy/religion, foreign lands/travel and ideals/law and consultancy. Your sun rules house 11 of groups, organisations and institutions. Somewhere along the way, it should be possible to find a way to connect with other people through those domains. My general impression is that if you try to find and build friendships, the safest route is basing them on equality (Mercury) and trying to connect them with yourself (the sun).