There are a lot of powerfull aspects between the 2 of you. Six of them are Trines—which are harmonious, beneficial, and very positive for a relationship. And these Trines, the blue lines in the centre, form a large Rectangle. Some call it a ‘crib.’ In synastry chart, it is comforting, solid and helps two people build a foundation.
Those trines include your Venus in Taurus Trine his Venus in Cap, Your Sun in Taurus Trine his Jupiter in Cap, Your Jupiter Trine his Mars in Cap, Your Mars in Cancer Trine his Pluto in Scorpio.
Your ‘crib’ of comfort together is built upon a solid foundation of Earth and Water, and played out by Sun, Venus, Mars, Jupiter, Pluto.
That kind of Water/Earth energy is ambitious, goal oriented, has material success,and can be seen as a power couple, maybe in business and social/political endeavours?
If we just focus upon the abundance of creative harmonious trines forming that Earth/Water crib, we could see this as a very positive,
and successful relationship/partnership.
A crib also has two oppositions within those Trines/Sextiles to hold things together. Your Mars/Chiron in Cancer opposed his Mercury/Neptune is needed to hold the crib together. And the Moon conjunct Moon opposed his Pluto is the other tent pole that is expected in a crib formation.
So you might feel like you can build a life together? There are the necessary elements there that can be useful.
However your synastry Crib has FOUR oppositions, not just the usual 2. His Sun/Uranis opposes your Jupiter. And his Saturn opposes your Venus.
So the promise of abundance, creative success, business acumen found in an Earth/Water crib is a little harder to come by smoothly or easily with these extra oppositions flooding the channel.
One of the difficult oppositions is your Mars/Chiron in Cancer oppose his Mercury/Neptune in Cap. Right now, Saturn/Neptune are conjunct in Aries and making a tension filled T-Square with your Cancer/Cap opposition.
When a man’s Mercury/Neptune is opposing his girlfriend’s Mars/Chiron, lots of emotional misunderstandings can occur. The Man may feel afraid to share all the gory details about a situation for fear of upsetting the Mars/Chiron in Cancer, whom he thinks overreacts at times.
When the full truth is revealed, Mars in Cancer feels lied to or deceived? But it is not usually really as bad as it seems so things gt foggy and blown out of proportion.
The other ‘bonus’ opposition is his Saturn in Scorpio exactly opposed your Venus in Taurus. Ouch. You have some past karma together most likely, which draws you together and makes it feel like you fit together, like you have always known each other.[which might be true]
But at the same time, Saturn opposed Venus in synastry chart can be very difficult to navigate.
Venus in Taurus wants and expects loyalty and devotion. You are a Venus oriented Soul, with Libra rising, Venus exalted in Taurus buttressed by the Sun. You give your all when you commit to someone.
You two have a Moon conjunct Moon which highlights his Taurus Lunar energy. He also wants Love and devotion. But I don’t think it comes as easily to him. He has a lot of Capricorn and Aquarius energy, ruled by Saturn. His Sag Sun is ruled by Jupiter in Capricorn. His Mercury and Venus /Neptune are in Cap, Mars in Aquarius. All Saturn ruled.
So he has trouble trusting things at times. His chart is kind of a riddle though, as he also has a tight Sun/Uranus conjunction. Which is impulsive and rebellious, and not very Saturnian. He may be confusing to you at times because Sun/Uranus can be inconsistent, very changeable, indecisive. It is hard to read him.
Anyhow, your Moon/Moon conjunction is opposed Pluto. I think you both are very passionate about this relationship. But there are some speed bumps or hurdles because of the 4 major oppositions built into your strong, beneficial crib foundation.
You seem to have the same goals and desires and are very compatible. But the communication mishaps and occasional trust issues need to be sorted out.
The transit of the Saturn/Neptune conjunction in early Aries is not helping right now. Things which once seemed clear may now seem foggy or uncertain. Now is not the time to ask for clarity or make any demands. Step back maybe, and see how it unfolds?